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2 year old not talking

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Kellie3236 · 18/04/2016 21:20

Hi

My 27 month son isn't talking and isn't very responsive. We have taken him to speech therapy and have been referred to a 9 week course which won't start for a few weeks yet. Since taking him to speech therapy my mum has raised a concern and said that she thinks he might be slightly autistic this had never entered my mind before as he is so happy loves cuddles with me or his dad he loves playing with us too. Chasing us being tickled he's always smiling and giggling. He also loves peppa pig!!

He goes nursery 3 days a week he doesn't really play with the other kids but he does play along side them. They have said he prefers to be with a worker and playing with them. As he's our first I just thought he liked to do his own thing and is independent.

He doesn't talk but does say mum, dad, nan, jump and no! He does respond to his name sometimes but not all the time. He's really good at walking clumbing and playing with his cars. He's very active he loves to run around. I'm not sure he has an ear problem as if I put the tv on in another room he comes running in.

He can feed himself and drink out of a cup without spilling. However he doesn't follow a command like go get your shoes but saying that I've always got everything for him so he hasn't ever had too. I guess I've made him lazy

I'm just really worried that my mum might be right has anyone else had these same problems? Am I being silly is he just like any other lazy boy I'm driving myself and my partner mad! I've been to my health visitor they are going to do his review in the next few months and so are his nursery I guess it's the waiting that's the worst part!

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ghostoftheMNchicken · 19/04/2016 14:43

When I mentioned puzzles I was just using them as an example. What I was asking, is if he needs you to help with something...does he take your hand in his and then lead it to whatever he wants help with?

My DD (who has ASD) did this. For example if she wanted a bottle of juice opened she would take my hand and bring it to the bottle to unscrew it. In other words, using my hand as a tool rather than communicate and ask for it to be opened by pointing.

For us, the early signs were the lack of pointing at things, not waving hello or goodbye and not pointing things out or bringing toys over just to show me.

Also it sounds like you've got a lovely little boy. My daughter is delightful (well, I think so anyway Wink), and her having autism doesn't change that. Enjoy him.

Do your local children's centres have any groups for children with communication difficulties? They were an absolute lifeline for me and my DD and there was usually a speech therapist there to get tips and advice from.

Kellie3236 · 19/04/2016 15:03

Thank you I've printed this off and will go through it tonight

I'm trying to get a doctors appointment but that's proving to be difficult fully booked until 30th April

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Kellie3236 · 19/04/2016 15:06

Thank you he is a lovely little boy we love him dearly regardless

I'm not sure if they do I'll look into it as I just want to hear him talk to me

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