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Could this be teething or just general sleep issues?

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sunshinyday · 07/01/2007 23:59

Despite attempting a bath, quiet read, dark room for final feed routine our 5mo ds has never been in any great routine with sleep, previously sleeping (eventually) at about 10/11pm and then waking 2 or 3 times in the night. He had a cold about 5 weeks ago and he started waking so many times a night I lost count. Then he briefly returned to waking just twice for a few nights. But for the last few weeks it's been a complete nightmare to get him to sleep . . . and KEEP him asleep for more than an hour or so.
He's clearly getting tired (eye rubbing, crankiness and tears) but he fights sleep. Some evenings he'll drift off in my arms after feeding mid evening, but it's like he treats it as a 30 minute power nap, only to bounce back in a completely hyper and manically smiley mood. Loads of smiles, lots of limb thrashing and VERY high pitched chattering. Some of the evenings we've battled to calm him back to sleep until 1.30am. Then he'll still wake 4/5/6 times. He often wakes again 20/30 minutes after falling asleep. Sometimes he'll wake with such a high-pitched cry it's really disturbing. The only reassurance is that he's always really happy in the mornings... which is more than can be said for his sleep deprived parents!
He's doing all the drooling, shoving anything in the mouth worth chewing (inc teething rings) and over the last few days a bit of ear pulling. I've been told these could be signs of teething, but equally could just be stages of development. We've been giving him some teething powder and tried Medised the other night, but nothing makes much difference.
Advice anybody? I'd hand over all my worldly possessions to just be woken twice a night . . . and I NEVER thought I'd say that.

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ILoveDolly · 08/01/2007 00:23

calpol? not an easy one...

sunshinyday · 08/01/2007 08:49

He just dribbles the calpol back out as two pink fangs and refuses to swallow it! After the first attempt he just locks his mouth tight. The medised seems to go down better - still a paracetamol med so assume it does pretty much the same thing?

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LittleB · 08/01/2007 09:04

I used anbesol on my dd's gums, it acts as an anaesthetic and seemed to help her alot. Don't know what else to suggest, my dd went through a really bad stage like that at about 7mths we did controlled whinging in the end - I wouldn't let her get to full on crying but would let her whinge a bit before I went to her, settle her in bed and leave her longer each time, it did work in the end but was hard work. Good luck.

sunshinyday · 08/01/2007 09:11

Thanks LittleB. I'm a bit of a wuss with the crying thing, prefering to swoop on in there the minute it starts. Maybe he's sussed that! Will get some anbesol and see what effect it has.

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LittleB · 08/01/2007 12:12

I know sunshinyday what you mean about the crying, my HV said I should do CC but i didn't want to, so I just left her a bit when she whinged and grumbled and picked her up if she cried, it took longer than I imagine CC would but it did work - I also only used it when I knew she wasn't teething or ill and was just being clingy. The anbesol was good too, you could try baby nurofen if your baby doesn't like clapol, or try a different flavour calpol?

ILoveDolly · 08/01/2007 23:30

sure any baby paracetamol based med would have the same effect. my dd loves calpol so much she gets excited when she sees a medicine spoon (not that she has it very much you understand - she's just a strawberry fanatic!)

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