At the end of my tether with DD, please help

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My 5 and a half year old is challenging me a lot at the moment. She shouts, smacks and kicks me, and is really rude. Some of it is starting to rub off on 2 year old. I am trying to be calm and consistent and apply sanctions but it all seems aimed at me and it's quite upsetting. Please can anyone suggest any strategies to help?

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Oh op

Has anything happened recently... A big change, going back to school?? Or has this been going on for a while?

It sounds like something is troubling her. I would sit and ask her if she has any worries.

Just keep being calm, as hard as it is. If you feel that she is getting violent or you feel like you need a breather just put her in her room, or somewhere else she will be safe and close the door. Once everyone is calm readdress the problem. As long as you are firm but fair, and consistent she will get the message. Only offer her treats as a reward so she has something to aim for. Don't give her treats habitually because then she will feel entitled to them and can therefore act as she pleases.

Thank you both - yes she seems to be finding the start of Year 1 difficult though she likes the teacher this year much more. I think the noise and busyness of school are something she struggles with. I am trying for calm and consistency but it is draining. It will pass, won't it?