Hello - I'm looking for some advice as to whether I should be concerned or not... My DS has up to now been really happy at school. We moved just before he started school and has done really well making friends and has built up a good circle of pals. He seems to me to be confident and happy playing on his own as well as with others. We don't have any other children. He has never complained about going to after school club and has been in the school holidays, when we gave him options of what to do in the holidays, after school club is where he said he wanted to go (I did have to sort out a couple of days of childcare). I've just increased my hours at work and he has started doing extra sessions at after school club. We were talking about it today and I was asking who he plays with. He told me that on one day it is very busy and he gets nervous when he goes in and in the middle. Now on one hand I am glad he told me, we talked about it and I asked what he would do when he feels nervous. He has got a couple of friends that he always plays with and they are still getting on OK so he said he could play with them. It is a bit complicated, the after school is based on two sites and on this day he has said there isn't a book corner where he can sit and read a book (my suggestion). I said to him that he was doing really well with coping with after school. I am now wondering whether I should do any more with this, I don't want it to escalate into anything bigger. Of course I googled it and I found somewhere that said that serious anxiety can start around this age. I have problems with anxiety (why I am on here!) and I don't want him to inherit the same issues. Any advice would be gratefully received. I also wonder whether to speak to the person who runs after school, who is lovely and who I trust.