How do you deal with tantrums? My 3.5 yr old is beyond unreasonable lately, for example, this morning I said we will be leaving for preschool soon "ok mummy" and all fine. Then we got our shoes on, said it was time to go and out of nowhere she starts screaming, saying no and saying she won't go. She loves preschool, fine when we got out of the door but it's the instant screaming fit about anything that she slightly disagrees with. I don't know if to ignore her, put her in time out, cuddle her.....it's driving me and my husband insane.