Ds is 5, he has always had funny ways, has to be naked, no one else in house, quiet, recently it has to be night time, dark outside, I've tried to ignore these things, not make a big deal of it. Recently we went away for a long weekend and he refused to go, waited till we got home, not unexpected, he went to his dad's and refused to go and wouldn't eat much because he didn't want to poo and had to come home a day early because of stomach pains, two days later he still hadn't been and I took him to out of hours because he was in agony. I had to give him an enema and force him onto the toilet , he was happy afterwards that he'd been, it didn't hurt and I was hoping that would be it, now we are back to the stomach pains and refusing to go, he's on laxatives but he's doing he's damdest to hold it in! I just don't know what to do, I don't want to get cross and he's to big and determined to manhandle. He does have other issues at the moment around anxiety and his relationship with xh which I'm trying to get support for him, I just want ideas how I can help him so this doesn't become a long term issue for him