Explaining death in Disney films to a 3 yr old

[Jaffakake]

We're starting to watch more films with ds (3.5) and I'm struggling to explain the dark parts to him.

So far Nemo has become a favourite & I wasn't smart enough to fast forward the beginning bit so was asked "where's Nemos mummy gone?"

Bambi was a particularly misguided adventure which we won't repeat!

Yesterday Simbas dad died in the Lion King. I just said he was very asleep.

I seriously don't know how to explain it. He's a pretty smart kid. Plus we've got a new baby so there's been a lot if change in the last few weeks. I think I'm scared he'll get worried his dad or I might die.

How have others handled this, or do you just avoid it!

Bambi isn't a crap film, its a classic. Its got some crap bits in it though and the whole film feels long even though its only about 75 minutes in length.

I agree, be honest, and watching these films can help children understand and come to terms with sadness and grief. I think its great that Disney produces so many films in which death is a part. The new Cinderella is great for this, as is Big Hero 6, and Frozen of course, even though the latter seems to brush the death of parents aside within a song (Do you wanna build a snowman?)

Maybe I should have said 'crap film IMO'...

Is now the right time to admit that I've never watched Bambi?

Tbh you've not missed much littlelionmansmummy I'd not watched it till recently & it's 75 minutes I'll never get back!