I know there are lots of threads but this feels slightly different as DS is a bit older. We trained him at 3.4 and he got it really quickly. However a few months later he went back to having wee accidents fairly regularly. This started before we told him we were moving house, but in the following few months we have moved house and he's started at a new nursery. We told him in January that we're having a baby in the summer. He was 4 last week.
I know the common feeling is that disruption like this can cause regression but it has been several months now, with the odd week of dryness followed by endless days of 1-4 wettings and recently the odd poo.
He seems absolutely unfazed by it and even told me tonight it made him happy to wee in his pants. We suspect it's laziness as it often happens when he's engrossed in playing or watching tv, but not always, sometimes it's just at random times. He does sometimes tell us he needs to go and we reward him with praise and marbles in the jar when he does this. When we wees in his pants we take a marble away. Trouble is we think the novelty of the marble jar has worn off.
We've also tried ignoring it and he does have to get himself changed, going upstairs to find new clothes, but this has been the case for a month now and it hasn't helped.
So not sure whether to go down the no attention route (although we don't think he's doing it for attention), the laziness punishment route (i.e. sorting it out himself to the point where it should be less hassle to just go for a wee), or the material reward/punishment route (marbles, chocolate coins etc).
We've got another 20 weeks to go before the baby comes - if it is connected to that, I've got a LOT of laundry to get through, and then what happens after the baby's born?
Any ideas?