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16 month old with possible glue ear - advice please

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Brambles34 · 04/03/2015 10:17

My son has delayed learning. He's not walking, waving or speaking. He doesn't even say mumma or dadda despite months of trying to teach him. It's only recently that we've realised that he might have hearing difficulties which would explain a lot. The HV is coming to see us on tues and has referred us for a hearing check at the hospital. If he does have glue ear, what do they do? And is there anything I can be doing now to help him? I'm worried that this is a crucial time for speech development and I could be waiting ages for an appointment. Feeling worried for my little prince Sad

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Brambles34 · 04/03/2015 11:08

Also, how long was it between first diagnosis and treatment eg grommets etc.

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DeeWe · 04/03/2015 11:13

Ds had severe glue ear at that stage. Although for him this showed itself in constant ear infections (about 2-3 per month).

I can't remember how long it took to be seen by ENT and they can't do a lot of testing at that age because they won't respond when they hear as an older child would.
However they do a sort of echo bounce which can show if glue ear is present, and they also have better than GP instruments to have a good look.
Glue ear can also mean a lack of balance which could explain the not walking too (although 16 months is by no means late for that)

Ds had grommets at 20 months, and it made a huge difference to him. However it depends on how bad he is, plus unfortunately on your ENT department as to how keen they can be to intervene rather than wait.

In the meantime speak lots to him, as I'm sure you do, but make sure you are facing him. Ds taught himself to lip read, which I didn't realise until it was pointed out to me. I just thought it was a cute habit of pushing my face round to him when he wanted to talk. Speak clearly, and slowly.

He may get better as the weather warms up. Ds is much better in the summer.

I would also when you see your HV ask what the waiting list for speech therepy is like, and request to go on the waiting list. In our are the wait can be a year, so if that's the case, then putting him on now is not unreasonable. If it's 6 months or less, then I would wait until he's seen ENT because the first thing SALT will ask is if he's had a hearing test.

Brambles34 · 04/03/2015 11:24

Thank you dee wee

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chocnomorechoc · 04/03/2015 16:59

My Dd had bad hearing and frequent ear infections at 16 months. ENT fast tracked OP for grommets when we saw her as Dd was so poorly with ear infections all the time and no speech either. We waited 4 weeks for the OP and she had grommets at 17 months.

chocnomorechoc · 04/03/2015 17:01

Just wanted to say, Dd had other delayed too and we have now a dx for severe asd. Sometimes, glue ear can be a bit of a red herring. If you have other concerns as well (not walking, not pointing etc), I would probably want to push for a referral to the paed to rule out anything else going on.

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