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change in behaviour after daddy's house!

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noosmummy12 · 20/10/2014 12:12

Hi all, im new to mn (well I follow on fb...), but I had a question for you all. Its a long one.......

Basically me and my daughter (3 in jan)'s father are not together and he has her every other wkend. Whenever she comes home she's awful! She hits and shouts and screams. I have had a new partner since she was 6 months old and so has never known any different. They are best friends but recently dd has been awful, especially towards him.

**She has always called him daddy followed by a name and her biological dad has always been known as daddy followed by a name, but now won't entertain calling him anything other than just his proper name.

Me and her dad are currently going through court (he wants full custody despite living 30 miles away n cant drive her to nursery) and has always been bitter towards me since being with someone else, even though he hardly saw dd when she was little. My dp has raised her since she was 6 months old n is heartbroken she wont call him daddy anymore....

Sooooooo... any suggestions? Thanks if you got this far!! Wine!

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YetAnotherHelenMumsnet · 20/10/2014 20:49

Hi noosmummy12, sorry just to bust in and shimmy your thread about there, but you had inadvertently provided a lot of identifying info and we thought it might be safer for you to continue this conversation with our lovely wise MNers without worrying that everyone would recognise you.
Hope that's okay, and welcome to MN!

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