my DS (2 and half) was hit and pushed by a younger and more boisterous child at nursery a few weeks ago and still mentions it a lot. the carers dealt with it by telling the child off and getting him to apologise, and it doesn't seem to be happening any more. But DS mentions it every day. I've tried reassuring him that the boy apologised and hasn't done it again, and that the other children play nicely (he has friends there that he mentions too) but he seems to be ruminating on it still in a worried way.
Any tips for reassuring him? or books on supporting a child with worries (both DH and I were fairly nervous children and had a lot of bullying to cope with, we'd love DS to take things more in his stride than we did...)