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5 year old scared of things that swing!

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Missteacake · 08/09/2014 08:15

I'm not sure what to do to help my 5 year DD. A couple of weeks ago she started screaming and running away from things that swing eg swings at parks, balloons with strings, the light cord in the bathroom. She gets extremely distressed heavy breathing can't talk or she shouts and screams. It looks to me like she is having a panic attack but I guess to others it looks like a tantrum. She even wanted to leave her own birthday party the other day as i brought balloons (this is very unlike her she loves parties). Once I took the balloons away she was back to dancing and having loads of fun. She won't go into the bathroom without me or my DH, when before she would go on her own, just incase the light is swinging. She cried and ran away from my mum as she was swinging her arm when walking carrying shopping.

I have tried telling her off, I have tried reassuring her, I have tried comforting her the only thing that helps is taking her out of the situation. I can't keep doing this as I can not, not buy shopping, or go into certain rooms of the house, or basically never take her anywhere.

It also seems to be escalating as she finds more things that's are swinging and she now has one of these "moments" once a day. I'm worried she's not going to leave the house!

I guess I'm looking to see if anyone else has experienced this. I'm aware that I sound very PFB but it is really distressing for her and us and it's starting to affect her everyday life. I'm also always aware she might bolt off at any moment. I'm not sure if it's worth a trip to the doctors or if it will just go away after time? Just to mention she has just started school but they haven't said anything should I mention to them?

Sorry it's so long any advice appreciated thank you
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carolinementzer · 08/09/2014 19:26

How did it start out of interest? Maybe if you could trace it back to the source you'd have a better chance of getting her to over come it...just a thought.

Missteacake · 08/09/2014 20:16

It started at the park one day. She hasn't had a swing hit her or something you could understand her now being wary of. It's come out of nowhere and she can't say why she doesn't like it.

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Missteacake · 09/09/2014 15:11

Today's incident was the back door was open and was swinging in the wind (barely moving!) cue massive shouting, screaming, hyperventilating, complete meltdown. Has anybody ever heard of this??
Thanks

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carolinementzer · 10/09/2014 09:11

Wow I've never heard of this but I guess you make a trip to your GP - they may suggest something like CBT - cognitive behavioural therapy to unlearn the fear - check out this link it may explain more www.worrywisekids.org/node/22

I've always had good results with homeopathy with my 4 year old when she's suffered any anxiety or behavioural problem - may be another avenue if you like that kind of thing. Good luck x

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