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My son's behaviour

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charuj · 07/08/2014 13:36

Hi, I'm a single mum and have a son with Autism. But I'm having a lot of problems with his behavior. He's 8 and goes to a special school and behaves when he's there but in the house he doesn't listen to me, he runs from room to room and screams when he doesn't want to do what I tell him. When he gets angry he throws whatever he has in his hand on the floor, a few days ago he threw his laptop and broke it!! Another thing he does is roll on the floor, I'm not sure why he does that but when I tell him to stop he doesn't listen(it gets embarrassing). Recently he's started to chew on the leaves of my mum's plants as well, he breaks them off and sometimes he pulls up my mum's plants. He normally needs to wear glasses but he doesn't wear them either, only puts them on for 1 min then pulls them off again and throws them away. I'm getting very tired of his behavior but don't know what to do. I've not been able to get any respite as I've been told he needs to be 12 before we can apply!! I'm sorry to ramble on like this. But can anyone give me any ideas on calming him down or to make him listen. Thanks.

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Tambaboy · 07/08/2014 14:13

Hi charuj I would recommend you repost on Special Needs: Children, many posters over there are very experienced with the issues you have described.

Goldmandra · 07/08/2014 14:35

Hi charuj. It sounds like you're having a really tough time with your DS at the moment.

I have two DDs with AS and forum has been a life saver for me. It's free to register and you can also ask to join their Facebook group. There are lots of parents on there who have been where you and and have tried and tested lots of behaviour management methods. They can help you to identify and adapt strategies to suit your DS and help you and him to regain some control over his behaviour. You can also chat about getting the right support from school and lots of other aspects of parenting a child with Autism. Whatever you're going through, someone there has come out the other side.

What strategies do you use at the moment? A now and next board, visual timetable, signing supported speech, deep pressure activities, weighted objects?

Goldmandra · 07/08/2014 14:38

Sorry, messed up the link.

Here it is

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