Hi,
Can some parents tell me whether my son's behaviour is normal?
Over the last 6-18 months, he has become increasingly stubborn, disrespectful and rude. He fights meal times, wanting to play with his toys or watch tv, ignores adults when he is asked to do anything, and puts on a face when he doesn't get what he wants or has to do what he doesn't want to do even though we explain the reasons of why we have to do it.
It doesn't help matters that he's always been unfocused, forgetful and gets bored easily. I could ask him to look for something that is right in front of him and he wouldn't find it. I ask him to clean his teeth but he will walk away. When asked what's he's doing, he will suddenly react with a jolt and remember he was supposed to clean his teeth.
He has no problem learning at school though the teacher has said they have to tell him to do things a lot more than the other children. When he is focused, his creativity and enthusiasm is intense. Especially on topics he is interested in.
Should I be seeking help?