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Is this normal? 17 month old behaviour.

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igglepigglesbitch · 22/07/2014 08:33

Just wanted to check this is normal as I have no way of knowing - never had brothers or sisters and this is my first child - never been around children till now.

My son is 17 months old and over the last couple of weeks I have really seen a change in him.

1/ The volume of him - he charges around the house yelling and shouting so so loudly that Im worried our neighbours will leave. I do whatever I can to try and quieten him down but he won't listen to me. As I understand that he doesn't understand why he should be quiet. But it's loud enough to be heard a street away. Screaming, yelling, shouting. Is this normal or am I a terrible parent (as I am sure my neighbours think). As soon as he wakes up he stands in his cot just shouting BLAAAAA BLAAAAA BLAAAAA.

2/ His activity - he doesn't sit still for a second ALL day (unless he is sleeping). To the point that i seriously worry about him because he is sweating and gets himself so hot he is dripping with sweat. He won't sit on my lap to hear a story. He won't sit on the sofa with me to watch In the Night Garden. He just wants to do what looks like an aggressive boot camp session around the house. He can climb on and off the sofa literally 45 times in the course of say 10 minutes. And yesterday - after doing this - he seemed to be getting angrier and angrier rather than excited - and started throwing his teddies off the sofa with sort of Exorcist anger.

I just wanted to know if this is your experience? Or not?
He doesn't eat any sugar really - except maybe a pink wafer occasionally.
And I take him out for a run about as often as I can.

Please be nice because i'm utterly worn out.

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dietcokeandwine · 24/07/2014 23:14

OP it sounds like absolutely normal 'par for the course' toddler behaviour for some toddlers.

I am (technically) a veteran of the 'mum to small toddler boys' school Grin My DS3 is 18m. So I've done this twice before, I thought I knew what I was doing, but lord alive DS3 is a handful! In a way neither of his two older brothers were. My older two were a laid-back doddle in comparison. I only have to blink and DS3 is upending plant pots/climbing on top of the piano/tipping potatoes into the toilet etc etc etc. I adore the bones of him but bloody hell he exhausts me.

My only advice is to get out. Literally. Get the two of you out of the house, to the park, swimming, softplay, anything to give you a change of scene and him a chance to burn off some energy.

It makes me smile to think that at the same age, DS1 would sit serenely in front of a 30 minute Baby Einstein video. I tried DS3 with one yesterday and I don't think he even managed 30 seconds...

You are not alone!

mrscog · 25/07/2014 12:41

Same here - DS was like this from 18-22 months, then slowly improved and now at 2.4 is MUCH better.

Respect on being a SAHM through it all - I found it so bad I skipped off back to FT work extremely merrily after an experiment with PT.

It gets better, it's not your parenting. :)

BoysAreLikeDogs · 25/07/2014 12:58

Oh bless you, yes, btdt

Totally agree with park or field, wide open spaces to run and run and run

Softplay might be super sweaty in this weather but again, yes for developing physical and gross motor skills

In the garden - balls to kick and lob, water is fun, even a washing up bowl with bubbly water, toss in his dinosaurs, plastic jug, beakers

This too shall pass

donefornow · 27/07/2014 00:06

Ds is 13 months and is like this, never keeps still and is VERY loud.
Dd (now 5) was the most patient, quiet, delicate little thing.. she is still the same. I think it's a personality thing.
Ds is tiring but he's also gorgeous and very loving (even if I'm knackered) I'm sure it will calm down a bit as he gets older.

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