I caught my 8yr old DS calling 2 10yr old girls you gay and lesbiens. It is not the first time I have noticed him retaliating with unpleasant language when he is out with other children eg the Beer garden or the local Green. It appears that they pick on him and he doesnt know the best way to deal with it so starts saying rude things about them.
I have tried telling him to ignore them and by saying nasty things he is lowering himself to their level but it doesn't seem to be registering with him.
He also wants me to go and speak to the offending 'bullies' but I not always convinced he tells me the whole story and be I don't want to be an old fish wife shouting in the street. Ds says the other kids mothers stick up for them but he has nobody.
Any suggestions