10 month old whining constantly

[Lazybones12]

Since son born he has been difficult. He is dc3. I know I sound horrible but he whines all the time from he gets up until bed. He is just miserable 90% of the day. I feel like a new mother. I get zero enjoyment from him and never really have. I just dread weekends. God I sound awful. He had reflux when baby buti think we're ahead off that now. I sometimes wonder is he just used to crying all the time... Any thoughts/advice

I bet his reflux still bothers him. He's not whining to annoy you.

My two had reflux. They never really got through it until toddlerhood.

I know he's not doing it to annoy me... Of course I know that. I just want to hep my miserable poor baby

My dd 2 is a bit like this and I thought it might be an attention thing as she gets far less than dd1 did at that age because I have dd1 to cater for too.

I was going to suggest teeth but as it's dc3 I'm sure you're up to your ears in calgel etc

Dd2 likes the sling and constant attention hoping it'll get easier as she starts to move and so can follow me/ do her own thing a bit more!

Thanks for reply. This is aside from teething. It gets worse when teething bad... He is crawling and standing but no difference I'm afraid. Just crawls around the house crying

Has he been examined to see whether the reflux has caused any lasting inflammation of the oesophagus? It could be that he is still in discomfort even if not actually suffering from reflux now, due to the acid that would have been constantly coming up.

Sorry I was a bit short.

But I'm willing to bed its the reflux and he has heartburn.

Poor baby and you. Get him checked up, it surely isn't normal if he is in pain. Something must be bothering him. It might even be an allergy.

Perhaps random, but 'controlled crying' can lead to whiny babies. No idea if that applies to you of course, but if it does it could be something to consider.