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My son hates me

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Monstersincq · 14/01/2014 18:17

DS has recently turned two and become just so vile. He has always been strong willed and a bit difficult etc but this is taking things to a new level. He screams at me constantly and is just furious about anything I do. He is obviously sometimes perfectly lovely and fun but I often say something or do something that gets him so angry. I of course ignore it try and carry on etc, do time out when things go too far. I think I am pretty consistent but getting a bit broken here. I work full time so don't have that much time with him. Making me miserable that the time we do have is full of shouting and frustration. Am also exhausted and sick around the clock with new baby on way (early days so can't think that is the problem). I know this is normal but does anyone have any tips with coping?

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 14/01/2014 20:31

He doesn't hate you, no boy hates his Mum Smile

Is he getting enough sleep? Sounds like he could be a little overtired. Does he still get a nap at nursery?

Could his back teeth be coming through?

How is his speech? Could he be frustrated?

No tips on the morning sickness sorry. Just try to eat little and often and make sure you are hydrated.

woodrunner · 14/01/2014 20:33

I really REALLY recommend the book Positive Parenting by Jane Nelson for help with strong willed children who fight you. It turned things round instantly in our house. It's full of suggestions on how to get on very gently with your DC, not lose your temper but also not be a wet giver-in. It's very clever stuff.

Your DS doesn't hate you. He's probably just at that phase where he realises he has his own free will and is exercising it. That book taught me so much about how to talk with my DC without falling out with them. There's a specific book in the series for pre-schoolers.

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