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Classmate keeps pushing my DS

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Moggy72 · 10/01/2014 23:25

I have a 3 year old DS. There is a boy in his nursery class who pushes him. He always does this after nursery is finished when the kids are all getting their coats on to go home. He does this deliberately - even if he on the other side of the cloakroom he makes a point of coming over and pushing my Ds. The teachers are not in the cloakroom and the boys mother will sometimes tell her son not to do it - but she doesn't actually tell him off. Sometimes the boy will also try and kick my DS when we walk past the bus stop outside school.
My DS is not in the least bit aggressive and fortunately doesn't get that upset, but I am annoyed that the mother doesn't stop him. The teacher said the bus stop incidents are not in school premises - so nothing they can do. I believe the teacher spoke to the mother - but it keeps happening. What should I do ? The pushing is not a hard push - but I just think it is a mean thing for a boy to do.

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oftengrumpy · 10/01/2014 23:36

DD had a similar issue at nursery and the staff there told her to say "No Thank you - stop it" loudly to the other child which gave a clear message that she didn't like it and wasn't playing as well as attracting the attention of the adults.

Moggy72 · 11/01/2014 10:39

Thanks often grumpy that's a good suggestion. I don't want to encourage him to push back, but I would rather he stood up for himself.

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