4 week old ds seems to have got into a pattern of being peacefully asleep most of the day, then waking at dinner time and not settling til around midnight (I'll get him asleep, he'll wake 10 minutes later and start fussing). He's tense and frantic, scratching at my chest, moving jerkily and crying in a really tense way (like he's so tense the sound almost doesn't come out). Some of it is wind, but even a big burp doesn't seem to help. I'm finding it really hard going - I have a 2.10yo so my days are: awake from about 5am with restless ds, dd up at 7, on the go all day (dd doesn't nap any more), ds starts getting frantic as dd goes to bed and fusses til midnight or 1am, 2 hours sleep, feed, an hour or two sleep, up for the next day... Dd was up late as a baby but was more of a cluster feeder, so was just latched on for ages.
Has anyone got any tips for calming him down? He ends up gulping air, getting wind and puking, it's like a vicious circle. He's finally settled to feed now and I'm really hoping he goes to sleep soon...