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2yo with a reading age of 5yo!

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speedymama · 24/07/2006 12:20

My friend from Australia, who is here on holiday with his family, visited us last week. They have 2 boys age 3yo and 2yo and 3 months. They have been doing this course by an American organisation called Brainy Baby where the parents sit with the children twice a day for 20 minutes and learn different words (use dvd and TV). They have done the course religiously for the last 6 months and both of their children can now read. They were disappointed in that they did not discover this course until the oldest was 2yo because it is designed to start when the child is 3months old.

My friend was going to subject DH and I to a 59 minute dvd that he produced showing his DC reading but we respectfully declined. Instead, he has given us a copy to watch at our leisure.

I was impressed with the children reading but it was interesting when the parents commented on the fact that they liked playing with the twins toys because they did not have much at home.

My 2yo DTS do not watch much TV because they are not interested in it so there is no way that I can make them watch a 20 minute programme. I just feel that hot housing them to read now in order that they can perform to friends is not for me and personally, I was not convinced that they understood what they were reading anyway. It was more word recognition.

Has any one come across these products?

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thewomanwhothoughtshewasahat · 24/07/2006 12:41

no - but I'm with you. I really don;t see the point with children galloping ahead at a rate which is out of synch with their emotional and social development. In fact I think it is probably damaging. imo the most important thing for young kids - especially that young - is to live in a house that has books in it (grown up books, I mean) and where they see adults reading and enjoying them.

anniemac · 24/07/2006 12:44

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chipmonkey · 24/07/2006 12:46

Hadn't heard of it but my ds1 was like that. Very interested in reading, photographic memory, and was reading at the level of an 8yo before starting school. While it was an advantage, he has not excelled in school because in a classroom situation he cannot pay attention! Am currently awaiting a diagnosis of ADD to get him a classroom assistant because while his teachers and principal feel that he is G + T, hispotential is not being accessed. That's just our experience, early reading and even giftedness do not guarantee success.

stitch · 24/07/2006 12:59

no, but my five year old cant read at all. so in a sense, all my two year olds have had the current reading age of my five year old.

speedymama · 24/07/2006 13:01

Very good point about the emotional and social development. DH and I are always reading and the boys now "read" their books themselves, even upside down. We are instilling a love of reading through our example. At this age, I want them to learn through play and enjoy themselves and not feel that learning is a chore that has to be done at a set time for twice a day.

Another interesting comment that my friend's DW made was that they were worried about the amount of TV that their DC watch. They are trying to restrict their viewing now. I could not help thinking that maybe if they had not forced them to watch this DVD, they would not be TV addicts now

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speedymama · 24/07/2006 13:03

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