how is this done without making every meal a training session? Its really important to me that they at least have the opportunity to be confident wherever they go when they are older. Even the basics need constant reinforcement. I'm still nagging about talking with a mouthful FGS, let alone stopping them doing irritating things like turning the fork upside down to shove peas on with a knife - how long does it take before its natural? They're 7 and 8 and I don't want to have to keep punctuating happy family meals by hissing 'elbows' 'mouth closed please' 'cut don't tear please' etc forever.