Dd 2.10 is becoming very demanding. When it is just me her and dd2 she is quite good really, she will go off and amuse herself, play independently etc. It's when both me and dp are at home however, she wants one of us ALL the time its very tiring, sitting on our knees climbing all over us even holding onto my leg. I have had to leave the room at times just to get space. Its not particularly that she wants to play as I ask and suggest things or even get something out but still shows not much interest, it is mainly in the afternoon when she is starting to become tired but I am finding even in the morning.
We do give her lots of one on one time also dd2 is just 9 months so the are starting to play together a little. Dd2 usually sleeps for around 2 hours in the afternoon and when both of ys are around one of us will be playing/drawing/play doh with her. If one of us goes and cooks, tidys any housework or even goes to the toilet, then dd wants the other ones attention now regardless of what is going on. We are usually out most mornings until lunch time doing something with dd2 just the normal playgroup, swings, walk etc.
Is this just normal behaviour for her age? It is very tiring and frustrating at times. Any tips on minimising this, in particular dd is very wingy and whiny when we are both around which is probably the most frustrating part.