year r daughter someomes servant

[livenlet]

My 4 year old come home from school saying she has friend year4 shes his servant he makes her chase down children in the play grond for him (to come to him) when they dont respond she get angrey , she thinks its a game I think hes manipulating her oh and he kick her last week b4 they were"friends" am anxios about talking to teacher just a game or am I right it just doesnt sit well with me any advice please

I'd definitely talk to the teacher about it.

Thank you thats what I thought leaving in 10 to pick her up trying to stay calm

It could just be a game. As a child, my friends and I did lots of imaginative play where someone was a servant (cinderella type) and had to clean the floor/wait on the 'prince/princess'. We also 'locked prisoners in the dungeons' and decreed they must be 'fed only on bread and water'.

However, if you feel there is something more to it, and you know much more about the situation and children at hand then maybe have a word with the teacher.

Just dont want anyone to take advantage of my baby girl , im really not sure so will just talk to teacher any way thank you

It's the age discrepancy that would bother me - if it was a friend in her own class, and they were taking it in turns to be the servant, then no problem, just a game.

Our school put loads of effort in encouraging the older ones to take care of the younger ones, and they play together, but the older ones really look after them. It's one of the best aspects of the school.

Good grief! They're 4, my dd (6) is often a friends puppy/cat/wicked mummy can,t think where that's from at school. Get a grip.

Is the friend 4 or in year 4 ie 8 or 9? I wouldn't be so concerned about another 4 year old but an 8 or 9 year old is a bit different.

Year 4 so 8 9

No worrys she told him stick his game when he wouldnt reverse roles

Good for her, I'm glad she was able to handle it herself.

Me too kids r great