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Fine motor development / 5 year old

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EstellaAgain · 28/11/2013 17:17

My (just) 5 year old DS started school (Kindergarten in the US) in August. We only moved here in July, from the UK. The teacher has (on a few occasions now) raised a concerns surrounding his fine motor development, and has sent home a few exercises for us to do with him to work on this. The concern seems to arise due to his messy handwriting (they are just learning to write 'properly' now). The teacher has explained to me that finger muscles need to be developed just like any other muscle. At the moment her concerns seem to be quite high level: she is not suggesting that he needs referred for assessment at this stage, just that he is a bit behind and needs to work hard on this.

The thing is, I don't see it. He did 3 years of nursery / preschool in the UK, and was always considered pretty competent at drawing / writing. He draws loads (of his own choosing), writes us lots of notes to leave around the house etc, and has always been very enthusiastic about putting pen to paper. His writing is big and messy, but until recently I don't think anyone has ever suggested to him that it should be otherwise - I was just pleased that he seemed keen to try to write at all as a preschooler. His report from preschool in the UK (attached to a state primary / taught by a qualified teacher) talked about how good he was at trying to form letters and numbers, and how detailed and competent his drawings were (i.e. this was a particular strength of his).

He has been competent with 'little' Lego for a couple of years, loves and is good at Hama beads, sticky mosaics and other small craft things. He can dress and undress himself (when he's in the mood!), although he can't do buttons or tie laces, but then I haven't particularly tried to teach him this yet. He eats properly with cutlery (although is often a little messy).

Should I take this teacher's concerns seriously? To my mind he's just a slightly slap-dash boy, to whom "writing neatly" is a new concept, and not one he is fully signed up to yet having been allowed to write however he wanted for the last couple of years, since he started (at a fairly young age) trying to write his name etc. But I don't want to take a head-in-sand approach if he really does sound behind.

For now we are doing some of the suggested exercises, and about 15 minutes a day of handwriting practise, but I am viewing this more as just that, handwriting practise, rather than an attempt to address fine motor development issues. Is this something that I should be reading into further?

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Dogonabeanbag · 28/11/2013 17:34

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Doitnicelyplease · 28/11/2013 18:31

I think your DS sounds fine - if anything I would have thought him ahead of his peers a little being good a fiddly things like lego and hama beads. Is he one of the younger ones? Maybe the teacher is comparing him to kids who are 6 soon.

We are in Canada and my DD is in full-time senior kindergarten (mixed 4&5 year olds) here they would be very happy that the child is just keen to practice writing/reading etc they are all somewhat messy writers at this age surely!

EstellaAgain · 28/11/2013 18:38

Thanks both. He is literally the youngest in the class, but the teacher is experienced and I would have hoped would have taken this into account. Glad to have my assessment of where he's at confirmed; if anything I would have said that he was slightly ahead of where he 'should' be on fine motor development, so these conversations came as a surprise.

And yes, in the UK his teacher was just pleased that he wanted to try. His writing is too big, and definitely not neat, but legible. I think I'll strike this off my list of potential things to worry about for now!

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pussinwellyboots · 28/11/2013 18:39

I've got a 5 year old who has very poor fine motor skills and your son sounds way ahead. I wouldn't worry too much,as they all change so quickly at this age. Having said that I would imagine that the exercises you have been given would be beneficial for most children, so would continue using these and other activities eg play dough/Lego etc as time and energy allow.

EstellaAgain · 28/11/2013 19:57

Thanks puss for your input. And agreed, the exercises are quite fun (e.g. picking up pasta with clothes pegs!) and certainly can't do any harm, and he's more than happy to play Lego and Hama beads so I'll continue to encourage these.

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