I want, I want, I want... Argh!

[MiaSparrow]

I'm sure this is just a normal toddler phase and generally DD (2.9) is a sweet, charming, loving, funny little thing, but when we're shopping it's bloody constant. Toddler sees X, toddler wants X... Any tips wise MNers? It's beginning to get me down, and what with Christmas coming up, I'm planning on doing quite a bit of shopping. What works? How have you dealt with it? (Apart from the obvious shop for everything online.) Thanks! xx

Take all 'I wants' as an expression of admiration not desire in someone who hasn't mastered the language yet and show her how to express herself.
"Yes, it's very cuddly/ pretty/ looks exciting/ looks tasty .... but we came to buy toilet cleaner/it's not on the list so we need to put it back now"

BIL takes a photo on his phone 'so we can remember when it's your birthday' and his DD usually forgets about it after that.

Agreed with previous poster. Acknowledge that what they have picked up is really nice/pretty/shiny with lots of enthusiasm. If they insist on having it, you can still go along with that and even turn that into a positive by saying something like "I wish I could give you all the [pretties/shinies/etc] in the world! What would you do with them?" The expression of 'I want' is not a bad one, it's just an expression and sometimes it really only needs to be heard (rather than be reasoned with). Good luck I hope shopping will be a bit less stressful!

I used to find a good lecture beforehand works. Remind them what the purpose of the shop is, remind them that they are not allowed to pester you, tell them if they will be allowed to choose a treat etc etc.

Ooh, how are you going to pay for it. Did you bring any money?

first, acknowledge that it's lovely and desirable. For example, oh my goodness it really sings!? That's a lovely toy! (this has the effect of making them feel heard)
then, give them their wish in fantasy. For example, if you had this toy you would sing a great song, DD. You love singing! (this has the effect of allowing them to dream)
then, slightly change the topic. For example, when you sing you make me smile. When we get to the end of the trip, let's sing a song together in the car. (this has the effect of distracting them)

Otherwise, I say "let's write it on our list for Santa"

Agree with all the above just wanted to add, make sure they are really full before you go

Thanks all for the great advice. Will try all of the above! Wish me luck.