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When to give up bedtime bottle?

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Purplerain80 · 26/10/2013 13:15

My Dd is nearly 17 months and still has a bottle at bedtime, but has water in a beaker/sippie cup. Just wondering when I should stop her bedtime bottle or start giving her it in her cup before bed?

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stripeygreensocks · 26/10/2013 13:17

My almost 3yo still has a bottle before bed. I see it as a comfort thing and he'll stop when ready.

Purplerain80 · 26/10/2013 13:31

Well I kind of thinking this or if "it's not broke don't fix it", my Ds stopped much sooner, but he took milk from a cup sooner. Where as Dd will only drink water from her cup and milk from a bottle, notated how many times I try, she just spits it out from a cup then won't touch the rest

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ZaZazebra · 26/10/2013 13:33

I chucked all the bottles away when she turned one and gave her milk in a cup before bed instead. She did however drink less from the cup but I didn't reintroduce the bottle. Just do what works for you.

Purplerain80 · 26/10/2013 13:36

Thanks for replies, I might try again with milk in a cup, see what happens...

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littlegem12 · 26/10/2013 13:37

ds has bottle of milk before bed too at 18 Months. I dont think its a problem just a nice comfort and part of hes bedtime routine.

Ragwort · 26/10/2013 13:38

I personally don't see the logic in giving milk in a bottle if your DD can use a beaker - why would you do that? Confused.

About the 'comfort thing' - some children at my DS's primary school were still having a bottle of chocolate milk at bedtime when they were 7 & 8 - they got a lot of teasing about that - yes, I am being judgey Grin.

Purplerain80 · 26/10/2013 13:43

I kept her bedtime bottle because she just didn't take milk out of a cup but yes she will happily drink water out of a cup(I'm a bit baffled by this as well) I know tho by the time she's at nursery/school she def will not be having a bottle whatsoever, I was only asking asy Ds was just turned one and happily took milk from a cup and wasn't bothered by a bottle after that, but Dd seems to be reluctant at the mo to give up the bottle

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Purplerain80 · 26/10/2013 13:45

...and I don't mind being judged we're all different,the world goes round for all if us no matter how we do things or who we are :)

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Whereisegg · 26/10/2013 13:54

When my dc switched to a cup for bedtime, we encouraged a big sip before we turned to the next page of their bedtime story.
That worked really well.

Purplerain80 · 26/10/2013 13:57

Thanks all for advice and thanks Whereisegg sounds like a good idea might give it a try.

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killpeppa · 26/10/2013 13:58

my DS took himself off at 13 months.

I cried.

littlegem12 · 26/10/2013 14:45

'About the 'comfort thing' - some children at my DS's primary school were still having a bottle of chocolate milk at bedtime when they were 7 & 8 - they got a lot of teasing about that'

17 months isn't 8 years old though is it.

Wildwaterfalls · 26/10/2013 14:54

Give it to her as long as she needs it! DD (14 months) is the same and drinks water from a cup but not milk. She has a healthy diet, we take good care of her teeth, so as long as she wants that bottle I'm not going to worry about it!

Keznel · 26/10/2013 15:30

My DD is 18months and had still been taking 2 bottles a day, one before her afternoon nap and bedtime one. This past week she dropped the afternoon one! I have no intention of rushing her to give up the bedtime one, as she settles well to bed at the mo, so why rock the boat? She too refuses (with a face like I'm trying to poison her) milk from a cup but will happily drink cup after cup of water. She will drop the bedtime bottle when she's ready as will your DD purplerain80 Smile

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