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7year old has starting misbehaving at school...

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Leish · 25/10/2013 10:59

My son has recently started a new school. Him and his friends have all moved up from infants together, so he's still with children he knows except they have shuffled the classes around. He's always been bright but also one of those "could do better" kids, even though his achievements without "doing better" at the end of year 2 placed him higher than the majority of his peers. I think I was a bit the same - you don't have to put in much effort to get by absolutely fine. My problem is that you never really get the sense of achievement that other children feel when they've worked for something. Now he's starting mucking about in class. He's never been an angel but he has always been respectful of grown ups and has never wilfully wanted to wind a teacher up or anything remotely like that and all his school reports say that he is a pleasure to have in the classroom etc. But I have had a few comments in the past few weeks since starting juniors from his friends and their mothers to say that he is mucking about. He is also saying to me that he finds the work easy. On top of this he's in a class of 34(!) and so I think the teacher is stretched beyond belief. He's also had some friendship issues from a possessive and jealous friend who has tried every trick in the book to sabotage my son's friendships. So I know he has a lot going on, but even so I do expect as a minimum that at this age he is a good boy in class. He is emotionally very mature and we had a big talk last night about the impact of his misbehaving on the teacher and his class friends etc. I just feel I want to nip it in the bud and wondered if anyone had some good strategies? I'm going to chat to his teacher today to see what she would like us to do xx

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ICameOnTheJitney · 25/10/2013 17:59

So the complaints have come not from his teachers but his friends and their parents? Confused since when is it their job to keep your son in line?

Go in and speak to his teacher, ask her what his behaviour is like...if it is less than exemplary then ask her to help you to help him....perhaps a target for the end of each week....if he has been good all week then he gets a small reward.

Also explain to him that "being good" is not only doing your work well but it is also behaving well in and out of the classroom, helping others and being on hand to help the teacher when he can.

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