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Bedtime/Sleep DS 2.5 ... gone belly up!

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DeliaOnIce · 03/09/2013 12:59

My DS 2.5 has since around a year old gone to bed lovely in his cot ... literally taking him upstairs at 7.30 pm ish, turning on the mobile with lights/sounds etc, laying him down and then just leaving him to go to sleep by himself. Don't get me wrong, there's been the odd night when he hasn't gone down well but they have been few and far between. He does also go through stages of waking in the night but usually settles ok - and we are up in the morning around 6 am which is fine with me (I need to be up for work anyway).

Well, I don't know what's gone wrong now!! Every night for the past week he has screamed as soon as I have put him down, seemed scared (?) and has screamed when I've left the room. I have therefore now had to sit at the side of his cot until he goes to sleep (has taken about half an hour).

Just wondered if anyone had any bright ideas ... do you think this will pass or is this the way its going to be?? I have also been thinking about putting him in a low single bed but I think he'll just get out ... maybe I have to bite the bullet now and just do it!

Any suggestions grateful received as to what's gone wrong and how to fix it!!!

Thanks, x

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Prozacbear · 03/09/2013 17:24

How about reading him stories? DS is 2.6 and since the age of 2 has needed a couple of stories to get him feeling ready to sleep.

He has them in bed, and without them he'd scream. Lovely for you too!

Re scared, is he able to articulate that he's scared in any way? DS often seems distraught but really, it's just a temper tantrum.

And re the bed - if he's going through sleep difficulty it might not bé the time to change beds. But... We have DS in a low bed. He does climb out, potters about, scoots around(!) And then climbs back in again. Also in the morning rather than screaming to get out of his cot, he climbs out of bed and plays. I know not ideal but it's a safe house and he's not a daredevil whatsoever. Plus, extra sleep for grownups!

DeliaOnIce · 04/09/2013 12:59

Hi thanks for your reply. Last night was same again ... he also woke in early hours and wouldnt settle til I sat next to his cot. Think you are right about big bed and will leave that battle til this one settles down!

Im still at a loss as to why this is all of a sudden happening. He didnt seem scared last night just upset when I left the room ... I really dont know what gas caused this sudden change.

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