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Grumpy and rude seven year old - am at end of tether!

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JesusInACabbageVan · 25/08/2013 09:52

7yo DS is driving me around the bend at the moment. He is grumpy 90% of the time, and spends his entire time at home getting angry with DS2 (4.5) over really small things.

He's not often out and out disobedient, but the sighs and moans and whinges, as well as casting himself to the floor in misery whenever we suggest doing anything, are really starting to get me down. Nothing makes him happy for long, and poor DS2 gets it in the neck all the time. (To be fair, DS2 does also wind him up on purpose some of the time, which I do tell him off for.)

Is this normal? Is it just something we have to live with? Do I ignore? I have been telling him off for his attitude and insisting on pleases and thank yous and a nice voice, but it's getting exhausting. Any tips gratefully received before I book myself into a silent order of nuns for the rest of the school holidays......Smile

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rootypig · 25/08/2013 16:05

He sounds frustrated. Is this his way of getting attention? If yes, try love bombing him. Or I think some kids are prone to boredom (I was). Not sure what to say about that, other than find him a hobby? Drawing, a musical instrument, sports team or club (tired kids have less energy to whine and sigh Grin)

Ett36 · 25/08/2013 18:18

sorry don't have any wise words but if it helps you aren't alone. sounds practically identical to my house with 8 and nearly 6 yr old! I'm going to be making reward charts tonight! hoping routine of school will help!

Littleen · 25/08/2013 18:48

Can he not play with some friends outside or something? It could be a thousand things making your child frustrated and grumpy; sibling jealousy (might not be visible to you), boredom, depressed - just to mention a few. Send him out to play I'd say!

Ett36 · 25/08/2013 22:15

just looking on line for myself and found idea of a thought box. where give DC this box and during a day they can post in how he/she is feeling good and bad. then in time just you two together sit and talk these feelings through without younger siblings/hasty reaction in moment. thought would share as I thought sounded good and I'm desperate too! Smile

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