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When did your DC start talking properly?

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TwoTeaTessie · 23/08/2013 18:43

I've been reading some of the other threads and I've to picked up the trend that most 2 yo's can talk in 3 and 4 word sentences.
My DD is 19 nearly 20 months and uses the odd word. Nothing profound, she is becoming frustrated when she can't make herself understood.
Now I know I'm probably worrying over nothing, so just wondered when did your DC start to talk 'properly'?

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CokeFan · 23/08/2013 18:48

Same as yours, not much in the way of understandable words at 20 months then massive explosion in proper words at 21 months, practically overnight. Proper sentences with several words followed shortly afterwards.

Zoomania · 23/08/2013 18:52

19 months and odd words so far and lots of babble that makes no sense to anyone but her! She understands hundreds of words though.

TwoTeaTessie · 23/08/2013 19:41

Same here she understands nearly everything we say to her then chooses to ignore us

Just good to know we're on track. Thanks guys Smile

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kritur · 23/08/2013 19:49

Lots of words here at 20 months, she can tell a tale with them eg, boat, dirty, wipe, clean, mama to say the boat is dirty, can she have a wipe to clean it. I don't count her tales as sentences though as she hardly uses verbs

BlingBubbles · 23/08/2013 19:52

My DD is 2 and we can have a full conversation with her and she can answer you back fully. She is my first so I am not too sure how normal this is, however, most people comment on how well she speaks. At her 2 year review with the health visitor, the HV commented that she spoke on par with most 3 year olds. My dh says she must take after me, as I love to talk Wink

ipswichwitch · 23/08/2013 19:56

DS is 22 months and says quite a number of words (he really took off with that about a month ago) but only has a couple of 2 word sentences. He understands everything though. There's a few the same age at the same ability so I don't think it's anything to worry about yet.

fififrog · 23/08/2013 20:15

At 2 year review, if you have them where you are, they will probably ask roughly how many words ("would you say she knows about 50 words" was what we were asked). But some kids I've met barely grunt the odd word at 2 and are clearly not regarded as that unusual. We have a talker here though...

MummyDuckAndDuckling · 24/08/2013 00:04

My dd started using proper words around 18 months then about 21 months she started talking in sentences. Now at 23 months you can have a proper conversation, she will ask questions and seems to have new words every day. I have worked a lot with younger children and think the age for talking that sticks in my head is just over 2.

jessieagain · 24/08/2013 01:19

My son is 26 months and has been referred for SALT, but there are long wait times for this in our area.

He had his first word a few weeks ago and since then seems to have 'woken' up in regards to speech as he now has a handful of words and makes many attempts as well. He also is much more communicative in the way of nodding/shaking his head for yes/no which he wasn't doing before.

Fortunately he doesn't seem to be too frustrated about lack of communication so we don't have too many tantrums about it.

We also started him recently part time at nursery and I really think this is helping as they have a real focus on language and communication and his key worker is very keen on teaching signs.

He was always quite delayed in communicating, he pointed and waved a lot later than the average child (didnt do either until well after a year old) so it seems he is just slower than most other children in this area.

If you are concerned definitely talk to your hv or gp straight away though, as if they suggest SALT it would be good to get on the wait list early. My hv got a community nursery nurse to come and visit us as well, and she was excellent at giving us some advise about what to do at home in the meantime while we wait for SALT. Maybe you could ask about this as well?

jessieagain · 24/08/2013 01:29

I had a look at some information the community nursery nurse gave me, 'by 2 years we should understand 50% of what children say'

TwoTeaTessie · 24/08/2013 09:39

I'm not overly concerned, it was just from where we are it seems like a huge jump to full blown conversations.

There is also the fact I'm not the HV biggest fan so try to steer clear. I hope you get into to see the ST soon Jessie

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kimmills222 · 24/08/2013 11:07

My niece is 19 mo and my sister is worried sic that she hasn't started talking yet. She says quite a few words and almost invariably makes sure she's understood. And she understands everything that's being said to her. I guess it's not a cause for worry. Some kids just start talking later than others.

sophj100 · 26/08/2013 22:32

It always frustrates me when so-called health professionals give a time-frame of when children should be talking and even give a percentage of how many words they should be using. I am also not a big fan of HV and the statistics they quote, completely devoid of realisation just how much pressure and angst this puts on us mothers.

I know of several friends whose children, usually boys who seem to always be developmentally slower than girls, who have not said much and then suddenly one day they can't stop. I'm sure that with some children, they are simply processing the information they are receiving and when they are able to, will put it all together and enjoy the power it gives.

Others, will get frustrated at not being able to voice their wishes and you can either use Makaton - the very simple user-friendly sign language, as used by Justin Fletcher on CBeebies. This will give them their own visual language, which will fill the gap until the words come along.

As a final suggestion, you can always get a referral to SALT (Speech & Language Therapy), who are usually very helpful people, in my experience and can usually spot if there are any issues of concern. This is just a suggestion, if you feel it would put your mind at rest.

Good luck and keep us posted! Smile

MortifiedAdams · 26/08/2013 22:38

Dd is 22 months and says a LOT. Never fecking shuts up. We go out the house "oooh, windy day Mammy"...i ask her what she wants to do today "park swings please Mammy"....tbh there is nothing we have done to encourage or promote it - she is just a talker.

My Dneice is not much of a talker, can say the odd word, she is 2.

In my.opinion they both fall.under the Normal.bracket - in ten years time, we wont give a shite who spoke how many words.at what age.

AlwaysWashing · 26/08/2013 22:40

Around 18 months and seemingly overnight DS1 was talking in proper sentences. At 2.3 yr review he was using well over 200 words.
Am very interested to see what DS2 does, whether he learns from his brother or grunts at us until he's 3 because he can't get a word in edge ways?!

crazykat · 26/08/2013 23:37

Mine eldest two seemed to go from saying recognisable words on their own to simple sentences very quickly around 20/22 months. DD2 was about 18 months when she started using sentences but she had DD1 and DS1 constantly talking to her which I think helped.

I'm almost positive that I read somewhere that some babies are early crawlers/walkers and are a bit older when they start using recognisable words/sentences, and others use sentences early but crawl/walk a bit later. It seems to fit my DCs as DD2 used sentences quite a bit earlier than older DCs but she walked about three months later than they did.

MaryKatharine · 26/08/2013 23:48

I have 4DCs. DS1 at that age probably had about 40 single words but no sentences, not even putting two words together.
DD1 was talking in full sentences by about 15mths. Had about 100+ words before her 1st birthday.
DD2 had a little less words than her brother but had a couple of 2word phrases usually more(something)
DS2 is 2yrs and says dada. Nothing more.

At the age your DD is at, the quality of her non-verbal communication is far more important than her speech. So, does she point at things and look back to check you are looking at whatever she is pointing at? Does she try to direct your attention to whatever's she is interested in such as a book or a toy? Does she wave and clap appropriately? If her non verbal comm is on track then the chances are everything else will follow.

curlew · 26/08/2013 23:52

One of mine talked at 9 months, another at 2.5 years. Both at the extreme ends of normal, I think. It'll come- don't worry.

valiumredhead · 27/08/2013 00:12

Proper conversations at 2 but ds was very chattyHmm

They talk when they are readySmile

Spongingbobsunderpants · 27/08/2013 15:34

Ds1 barely uttered anything other than sounds until 20 months and didn't properly start talking until 2.5-3years old. Lots of people comment on how good his speech is now, and his confidence to talk, but it took a very long time coming! Dd2 on the other hand chatters away in virtually full sentences and she is 22 months. Horses for courses, I reckon. They all do it at different paces :)

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