My DS is 19wo (4 months) and is bloody hard work!
He currently seems to hate his bouncy chair, his playmat and his bumbo, and even gets frustrated/grizzly if I hold him on my lap and try to play with a toy with him. He is just a bit of a grumpy baby i think, but it is hard to hear him grizzling all day, and feel like I am failing to find ways to cheer him up all the time :(
He likes being cuddled and carried around the house but he is 18lb, and I have a bad back, and I cannot carry him round all day, I need to some time to have a poo myself now and again.
He is currently taking four 45-minute catnaps per day, which means he is awake for around 2 hours in between each nap. During each awake period i try to always play with him, sing songs and cuddle, put him in his bouncy chair in the bathroom whilst I have a shower, sit him on the bed whilst i put the washing away, talk to him about what I am doing around the house etc etc.
Over the last couple of days though, I have found that the one thing which is guaranteed to stop him crying is to put Baby TV on (it's a Sky channel with lots of songs, bright colours, no adverts, aimed at babies)....he will actually happily lie on his mat for 10-15 mins with this on.
But my question is.....does this make me a terrible mother?? I feel bad just plonking him in front of the telly but sometimes I am at my wits end with his crying.
Am I going to be stunting his development , or is it ok for him to watch a few mins of telly during each of his wakeful periods??
Sorry if this is a daft question but he is my first baby (obviously!) and I have no idea what i am doing!
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DangerMousey · 16/04/2013 13:38
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