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Is my child too advanced in this area?

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blushingmama · 14/05/2006 23:07

I have changed my name because I feel so silly asking this and don't want it to sound like a bragging post - it isn't.

I have just spent a week on holiday with my mum. She has been gobsmacked at how bright my ds is. He is 22 months and chatting quite a bit but his real thing is numbers.

He is able to count to 20 in English and to 5 in two other lanuguages but he recognises numbers and will read them out randomly for example if he sees a phone number etc. He can also spell his name and do a bit of typing on my lap top(mum,dad,teddy). He knows all his shapes and colours too. we have started the alphabet this week and he can recite up to F if I write them down. I am trying to keep up with him but don't feel I am rushing him into anything as I don't suggest anything he asks me.

Well, the reason for my post is mum has been having a go at me and saying I am going to set ds up for a fall as he will learn too much before he starts school and that he should be running around like a loony and not studying with me ( he does run around like a loon too BTW) Mum says what he has learnt makes him extremely advanced but as I don't really know any other children his age (we mainly socialise with mums and slightly older children) I'm not sure how he compares.

Should I stop going through all the things we do so as not to mess up his future study-even though he asks me non stop to do his "numbers-numbers" with him?

I guess I just want some reassurance that I am not doing anything wrong.

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drosophila · 15/05/2006 20:02

My DS was like this and still is advanced for his age now 6 in reading maths and Science. Thing is he is terrible at writing and thinks he is stupid cos he can't write as much as his classmates. His teacher is very impressed with his abilities but he doesn't get any support with his writing. SHe puts it down to him being so bright he physically can't keep up with his brain. It's not this. Writing hurts him.

Being bright can make people not see the whole child. I never knew DS had trouble writing until last year and cos I was so used to him breezing through everything it stumped me.

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