I think like all guidelines/advice, the SIDS guidelines/advice are just that: advice. They are not mandatory and as long as the OP is aware that they exist, basically it's up to her to make all the decisions about how to raise her children.
Since DS was born 15 weeks ago I have taken a number of decisions which are contrary to the current SIDS advice (DS sleeping in his own room from 6 weeks, putting DS 'to bed' in the early evening - around 7pm-8pm - from about 10 weeks cos he was getting tired and I thought letting him 'nap' in the living room when he was clearly trying to tell me it was his bedtime, was nonsensical)....I don't regret any of these decisions, they were the right ones for him and for our family. I took them in full knowledge of what the SIDS advice is, but it was not in any way working for us to live according to those rules! and i figure it's not like I am blowing cigarette smoke in his little face or anything
To answer your question OP, if you would like your DC to start spending the early evenings in her crib, rather than in the lounge, I would recommend feeding at 7 (or a little later if you can) and then putting down to sleep shortly afterwards. Then feed in the dark quiet bedroom at 10pm. Even if she is waking for that feed now, I reckon within a couple of weeks she will naturally start to stretch her feeds a bit and then you can do the 10pm feed as a 'dream feed' where you gently get her out of the crib, feed her, burp her, and put her back down, without her really waking up :-)
My DS sorted out that 'early' part of the night first, and would sleep v well between 8pm - 2am (with a dream feed at 10pm), and he then gradually got better at sleeping in the early hours of the morning too....he now pretty much sleeps through the night, and doesn't feed at night at all although he has been awake since 0545 this morning, the little tinker!