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How can I encourage ds with his speech?

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tory79 · 13/03/2013 14:07

DS is just coming up to 18m, and doesn't really have any words yet. He makes some sounds fairly consistently - mainly doh for dog, and he attempts to say moon, milk and more, does a bit of mamama sometimes, and does a hissing sound for snakes. He also has a couple of other sounds that I am pretty sure are supposed to be words but I haven't figured them out yet Smile

To be clear I am not worried at all about him (although a lot of his friends seem to have a lot more words than this!!) He understands loads and can follow some quite complicated instructions. He LOVES being told words, eg at dinner I spend the entire meal going plate, fork, pasta, beaker, table, pasta, fork etc etc etc as he points at everything over and over and wants to be told what it is. I just can't seem to get him to even attempt to try and say any of these words. If he points at something, and I say 'you do it' or similar, then he just looks at me and points to something else. Also, I am very good at interpreting what he wants based on a point and a few eh eh eh's (this is the sound he makes constantly!) so he doesn't have to try and say anything to get me to understand, not sure if this may also be hindering him.

Does any one have any suggestions for how I could encourage him to have a go at making some different sounds and trying to say words?

Thanks Smile

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RikersBeard · 13/03/2013 14:18

Just continue as you are and when he goes eh eh, say "is this what you want, the X?"

DS1 was a bit slower to talk compared to some of his friends. He is now 3, never shuts up and is massively articulate. When he all of a sudden started with good sentences I realised it had all been going on in his head, it just hadn't come out of his mouth yet. And i think I realised sometime later that actually you don't teach them to talk, they just learn to by you talking to them. Sounds daft, but I did worry that I wasn't teaching him enough.

tory79 · 13/03/2013 14:32

Yes I talk to him all the time, EVERYTHING is described. To be honest I am sick of the sound of my own voice most days!! He loves his books too.

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k2togm1 · 13/03/2013 18:54

Ds who is 2 today would only say 'nananana' at 18 months, not he has sentences of four, sometimes more words! I didn't expect it, kind of though he'd talk late, but it kind of 'clicks' suddenly. Your ds will get there!

ellesabe · 13/03/2013 19:01

Have you thought about learning makaton with him? I took dd to sing and sign which she loved and it really helped her. All of her first words were the ones she could sign.

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