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dummy usage advice

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micharine2012 · 16/01/2013 15:58

hi, i have a 6week old lil boy, he takes a while to settle of an evening, i keep to a routine, bath between 7 - 8pm, bottle then down time till he falls asleep, or starts to drift off, then i take him upstairs to bed, he sometimes has another bottle in this time (around 9.30,) which helps him fall asleep, although he doesnt have it all,(2-3oz) i put him down then he can wake up a couple of times till he really settles, wanting more of a bottle to sleep,(1oz) well more to suck on, this happens in the night too, 2 to 3 times from 11 till 7, ive been told to give him a dummy instead to help him sleep through or to sleep better.
i gave him a dummy once at 2 week old during the day and would scream if i was taken away from him or fell out, took it away the same day, took him a couple of days to get bk to normal.
would love to give him a dummy if i knew it would help at night, just dont want him to want it all the time ie day time too, any advice?
first time mum on own most days x

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BornToFolk · 16/01/2013 16:06

DS had a dummy from about 4 weeks old until he was about 4 years but only ever at night or for naps. I would just give it to him when I wanted him to sleep and take it away when he woke up! It was really useful as he got older as he would definitely associate the dummy with sleep so it helped him to drop off.

You might be expecting a bit too much for him to sleep through at this age though, he is tiny! Although if he is taking very little milk at night, it could just be that he wants to suck for comfort and the dummy would help with this. Be warned, though, you may have to get up a lot to replace a a lost dummy.

JiltedJohnsJulie · 17/01/2013 14:36

I think you are just going to end up being woken lots to replace the lost dummy too.

pumpkinsweetieMasPudding · 17/01/2013 14:45

If he takes a dummy, great Smile, but it doesn't sound as though he is taking to the dummy.
I wouldn't give him one if he doesn't really take it, as you will forever putting it back in his mouth iyswim

peeriebear · 17/01/2013 14:50

DS is 17wks old and has only just taken to a dummy. He was a real finger sucker and would suck on me for comfort as well as feeding to sleep. Since he's had the dummy he has been miles easier to settle, sleeps for longer stretches and is generally not as fussy. He still puts things in his mouth and does a lot of crowing, it's not impeding him in any way.

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