DD is 7, and is notably louder than her friends. When she gets excited (which is often when friends are round etc.) she shrieks, shouts stuff that makes no sense, exclaims wildly etc. I keep expecting her to calm down a bit as she gets older, but she doesn't. She obviously can control herself, as she's not like this at school. She can also sit for ages quietly doing craft etc. I feel like I'm always telling her to quieten down, calm down etc. but she just say "OK!" and carries on as she is. I sometimes take her out of the room to calm down if it gets really bad, but the effect is only temporary. It's not that she's really naughty with it, but it's quite unpleasant to be around.
I'd really welcome any suggestions on how to deal with it. I feel some of it may be a personality clash between us (I'm very quiet and reserved) but it can be a problem, particularly for instance if their are younger children about who get wound up and over-excited by her, and I do think it's getting to the stage where she's coming across as a bit immature and some of her friends (and their parents) are a bit
around her when she's like it. I don't want her to think that she needs to change her personality, but would like her to stop being quite so silly and OTT.
Any ideas?