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Sudden separation anxiety

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RikersBeard · 06/01/2013 17:52

DS2 is almost 1 and has so far been a very placid baby who would go to anyone and rarely cried, but has always wanted a lot of cuddles. He's also been a brilliant sleeper- breastfed but slept through from about 4 months, self-settling with his thumb. In the last couple of weeks he has started shrieking hysterically when he wakes at night, and I can't settle him back in his own cot. Hes not asking to feed, but he is inconsolable when I try to put him back, so he ends up in our bed. This is a new thing, he's not coslept at all since he was a couple of months.

I think it must be separation anxiety, because he has now just stated shriekingr in the day when I leave the room, or when I am out of his line of sight. I have just gone back to work last week which is likely making things worse, but it wasn't what started it off as the problem began before I went back.

I know it's a common thing, but what do I do at night to prevent him waking his brother? Should I just let him cosleep for a bit or will that cause other problems? How can I make him feel more secure?

Never had this at all with DS1! Thank you.

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dibsmum · 06/01/2013 23:26

Sorry no advice but my dd is starting to do this too so watching with interest for tips!

ZuleikaD · 07/01/2013 05:59

Just go with it and do whatever he needs - they grow out of it quicker if you don't try to push them to do without you.

RikersBeard · 08/01/2013 07:27

Thanks. It is easier to cosleep, if only he wouldn't insist on holding my ear all night :o

The last 2 nights he's actually been a bit better. I left a nightlight in the room so I'm wondering if that's helped

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