My DC's are so demanding - I've had enough

[BetteDavis01]

Dd is 3 and DS is 16 months. They will not play together, they just attack each other. DS has one, 30 min nap and DD does not nap at all, she just works herself up and overtired and then starts being silly, screaming, hitting and generally out of control.

I'm not being very coherent, but basically I need some tips on how to exhaust them and make then sleep. They are both wide awake and won't go to be til 8.30pm. I'm so fed up and tired. I'm a SAHM and I'm sick of it atm. The day seems to go on forever.

I think my main issue is getting them to bed at a reasonable hour, I don't get an evening and I really do need it for my sanity.

Any advice gratefully received. Thank you.

[LackingNicknameInspiration]

I have DD1 (5) and DD2 (3) - and DS who is 8 months. And it is hard - I always used to have mine down for 7pm but we are currently slipping back a bit. Also SAHM and you do need some time in the evening or you do go mad!

Fresh air is the key, I've found - DD1 had chicken pox last week and was in all well and could NOT get to sleep at night. Got her out Weds/Thurs and it made a massive difference. It was freezing, but worth it.

Agree with the evening routine - and start it earlier if need be. It's just me and them until 8.30 - 9ish, so I need them to go to bed early, as do they! Currently giving supper as soon as we return from school, 4pm-ish, as I find that DD1 tends to go hyper once she's eaten and winds everyone else up into a feverish pitch of excitement so they can't sleep....

Oh, and 3 is an excruciating age for children. Everyone goes on about terrible 2s, but IME, 3 is much worse. So cling to that thought! It will get better.

Good luck!