I have been following with interest several of the discussions about difficult 4/5 year olds. My ds1 (5) has been making life hell for me and it's just getting worse. I don't need to go into the details 'cos many of you have heard them all before - suffice to say that he is turning our home into a battleground and is upsetting ds2 (2) as well as making me absoutely hate being his mum.
I have had the hv round who was pretty useless - suggesting all the things we have already tried, giving him choices, choosing our battles etc. Now I have decided it can't do any harm to give him fish oils so I toddled off to Boots today to ask for some. The pharmacy assistant had never heard of pro-efa and said all the fish oils they had were for adult use and the only thing she could suggest was cod liver oil! She then had a long discussion with me about how I shouldn't give ds coke or fizzy drinks (I don't) and try not to feed him food with additives (already trying) and she then turned round to him and said "you seem like a bright boy, you just need to be kept busy" to which he smiled angelically at her!! All this was taking place against a background of him removing, smelling and replacing every container of fish oils on about three shelves in the store before running off round the corner where I have no idea what he got up to.
I know she just meant well but I just wanted to hand him over to her and say well, if you have so many good ideas why don't you have him for a bit and try them out - it's not as if I haven't tried everything I can think of myself already. Anyway, my question is - are fsh oils really such an esoteric substance that I can't get them at Boots and if so, where can I order or does anyone else have any other brand names? Thanks in advance for any help.