my ds is coping very well with toilet training - staying dry no problem and using big toilet to do pees and poos but we are still having accidents in his pants regarding poos. The problem is he will poo in his pants then tell me and run to the toilet. He is nearly three years old. He has no problem with constipation etc but I can't get him to understand that he can't poo his pants. Have tried buying character pants, tried star charts, tried getting him to clean mess but to no avail. He really is trying but I firmly believe he thinks it is okay to poo then go to the loo or else he has no control. Even as a tot I have never seen him anticipate needing to go whereas my other one used to pause in his tracks, look very concentrated then go bright red and squirmy. Seems like if I am lucky and manage to get him to poo on the loo which he gladly does, then he will be clean all day, but if I don't ask he won't ask till the deed is done. Any ideas? Perhaps I need him to have more control in deciding when to go.