we started potty training DD 4 months ago when she was 2.5 I know it was prob a bit early but she just wouldn't keep a nappy on so we decided to go for it. Now 4 months on she will go to the toilet on her own - after prompting (pees only) - will take off her nappy and go after nap time and in the morning but only after much prompting nagging and blatant threats. She seems to have made no progress at all in recognising when she needs to go. She refuses to poo in the toilet and doesn't tell us when she has had an accident. DH an I can ask if she needs to go the answer is always no but in 5 in we can find her sitting/standing in a puddle or having soiled herself. Some days are great as long as we get our timing right but others are just accident after accident. Reward charts seem to have no effect. Its starting to get to me. Also have DS 15 mths and DD2 is due in Jan so keen for this to work - don't want to spend every min of the day changing nappies!