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dreamteamgirl · 21/03/2006 22:35

Hi all
I am sure I am worrying about nothing, but was wondering about DS's speach lately. He is 13 months and largely not communicating.

He can say mumma, dadda and hiya -oh and DA of course, but they are all just random words. Mumma and dadda are to the cats or teddies as much as us, and virtually never used to the right parent. Hiya he uses in his car seat, and waves, but doesnt say it on arrival or anything.... Da is shouted at anything he wants.

Also, he doesnt seem to understand anything we say. The words food, drink, milk etc may as well be Greek to him.

He was an early mover, walking just before 11 months, and moving was his primary consideration, so I wasnt overly worried -I just figured he was focussing all efforts on that. 2 months on he is running, and moving brilliantly and has even had an outside walk, but the speach and understandng doesnt seem to be improving any.

My freinds DD ( I KNOW, I KNOW, dont compare LOL) understands things like "take the cup to daddy" or "would you like milk" and has about 10 words, yet Sam stays silent Sam....

Anyone else's LO the same, or does anyone have any great tips to help him improve on this?
Many thanks

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Bozza · 22/03/2006 13:38

According to my parents I didn't utter a word until I was 17 months old and my baby sister was brought home from the hospital at which point I said very clearly "baby", grabbed my Dad's hand and led him across the road to the old lady who lived there and said "baby" again and have never shut up since. And I wasn't an early mover so don't have that excuse.

I think 13 months is a little young to be too worried yet. I would give him to 18 months and then consider if he is coming on at all.

CorrieDale · 22/03/2006 19:40

My sister apparently didn't say anything - not even 'baby talk' until she was 2. And then she pitched staight in with sentences! So I really wouldn't lose any sleep with your LO!

dreamteamgirl · 25/03/2006 22:24

Everyone, thank you so much

It is very reassuring to know that he is not alone, in not yet reciting "the full works" etc etc :) Such a wide range isnt it?

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wellyb00t · 26/03/2006 03:03

I've been worrying a lot too, but didn't really know what to do about it. I dont get on with my health visitor. Ds is 21 months and can say:
Dada
tea
apple
cat
juice (occasionally)
bubba

He cant even say mumma yet! I feel so much better reading this thread, its amazing how much each child differs from the next!!

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