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4 yr old desperately scared of vampires

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Fluppet · 02/08/2012 14:06

My 4 year old DD was at nursery when another child brought in a comic about vampires. This was approx. 4 weeks ago and she is still terribly scared of them. She says she thinks about them all the time, even during the day and can't think any happy thoughts. I have tried everything to ease her worries, from saying they aren't real, to showing her funny vampires on tv like Sesame Street's "The Count".
Last night, she was terribly upset about bedtime and kept saying she was thinking of vampires all the time. I asked exactly what she was thinking and she said they were coming through the window and drinking her blood off the floor!! This is obviously upsetting me as I can't seem to help her in any way.
Does anybody else have a suggestion or experience of this? I'm trying to be consistent in assuring her that vampires are not real, so am reluctant to start putting things in the room to deter them.
We have of course, spoken to nursery about this and they have assured me that the comic won't be making another appearance.

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LemarchandsCoxlessPair · 02/08/2012 15:09

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Elsqueak · 02/08/2012 17:29

Agree with you about not wanting to "ward off" vampires and therefore validating them. Had very similar with my dd and monsters. Dd up 6 times one night with recurring monster dream. Supernanny Jo frosts advice was making a "monster repellant water spray" and spraying the room before bed. But honestly couldn't see that as helpful as seemed to be telling her they were real and needed to be fought. However did acknowledge her fear itself was real. What I actually did was tidy all her stuffed toys/anything with a eyes on it (comics, drawings etc) away in her cupboard so her room was pretty spartan. Aired the room with a little lavender essential oil (in winter you can stick it on cotton ball on the radiator and it circulates nicely) and generally created a nice relaxed atmosphere. Also cut down her tv watching before bed. She used to watch Night garden, not that that was particularly stimulating but it really helped. I don't know if any of that is useful but maybe worth a try?

LemarchandsCoxlessPair · 02/08/2012 19:33

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