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Arghhhhhhhh constant screaming from 14 month old

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AnArkIsAFineVessel · 28/07/2012 07:18

I am getting to the end of my tether with my DS2 and am desperate for any suggestions on how to manage this . He screams .. High pitched top of his lungs screaming! He screams when he wants to get up (which is usually around 5.30 am and is still so tired he goes back to bed at 8 or I have to drop him off at the childminders half asleep , he stays awake till 9 then when he has a good 2 hour snooze) he screams when i put him to bed and I have to stay with him also to be screamed at. He screams when he is tired and also when I am doing something else at home and not paying him the required amount of attention . My eardrums are hurting from this and I'm constantly on edge waiting for the next bout of screaming. I have tried ignoring him and he just keeps going, saying no gets no response apart from sometimes a laugh! I can occasionally redirect him to something else but then it's back to . He is actually doing it at me right now as I dare to post on here and ignore him! Apparently he doesn't do it at the childminders although he does whine and whinge there . I think half of it is he is tired as its a battle to get him to sleep and he wakes so early then is playing catch up on sleep all day .
Has anyone else experienced this ( please say its a phase :-). ) and any ideas on how to deal with him . I'm also sure my neighbours must be getting heartily sick of him too as I have had the windows and patio doors open all week so he can scream to the world!

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NiceCupOfTeaAndASitDown · 28/07/2012 07:34

DS went through a stage of screaming a lot at that age, nearly drove me mad and I have no idea what the neighbours must have thought. At nearly 18 months he's back to the whinging and whining (please someone tell me he'll grow out of that soon)

I think around this age they're starting to understand an awful lot more than they can express and it's frustrating for them so they use whatever means necessary to get their point across. I just kept giving DS the words for what I thought he wanted "up" "cuddle" "play" etc and a lot of the time now he will use them instead of screaming at me. Although having said that he's currently alternating crying, whining and 'whinging' words (adding 'a' to the end of each one) driving me crazy bumping into everything and I know that's due to tiredness but the kid is allergic to sleep or thinks he can live without it, they go through stages I guess. It will pass

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