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6 month old has always been grumpy. I'm so so sad.

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OddBodd · 17/07/2012 19:42

Hi all.

My 6 month old DS has been high needs and grumpy since day one. We struggled to establish breast feeding. For months he barely fed but snacked every 40 minutes or so even throughout the night. We just went with it hoping it would get better. I just slept with him on me. Eventually it worked out and by 5 months he has been sleeping around 10 hours straight at night, feed at 5am and back down til 7am so can't complain!

During the days though he is just so miserable. I have been at the paediatricians and tried infant gaviscon and ranatidine incase of reflux, I am now dairy free and have been since 12 weeks incase of intolerance. Basically I feel like we've tried everything, even 2 sessions of cranial osteopathy but nothing has cheered him up.

He is over tired most of the day as he only nas for 30 mins at a time and always goes to sleep screaming on me unless I manage to feed him to sleep. He wakes up grizzly as he's clearly still tired. I have tried putting him doewn every 2 hours but he's just exahausted ll the time and screams.

It's totally impacting on my mental health now. I am on edge and shakey. He cries so often for no reason I can find other than I am assuming he's tired but I can't soothe him back to sleep after a nap. I've tried feeding rocking shhhhing, patting, white noise. Nothing works, his eyes pop open and the crying begins. What am I doing wrong? He is so grumpy all day. Please help.

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Bpr187 · 27/03/2020 18:04

@Oddbodd
@Oddbodd
I'm going through the same thing now with my 6 month old. . He's always winging, me never smiles at me. He's either staring at me or winging or crying. He doesn't like anything, he's only quiet when I am walking around with him or if he's on my boob haha! Was your little one the same? Did he ever smile? It is something I'm worrying about as I don't feel like we're interacting very much because he's so wingey! Did you feel like this?? Xx

Bpr187 · 27/03/2020 19:55

@Twinkletoes19

Did your little one use to smile at all? I feel like my little boy just will not smile he's either just staring or crying/whinging. It's so upsetting 😭

Twinkletoes19 · 02/04/2020 19:19

@Bpr187 Hi there. No, my baby didn't smile very often when she was that age and she never laughed. She's now 13 months and she smiles quite a bit and she laughs when she is tickled (but that's it). It started to increase when she was 9/10 months. I'm sure your baby will start to smile and laugh soon. But don't take my baby as your example as she is exceptionally difficult - and I have 6 other babies in our NCT group who are exactly the same age to compare her with (not to mention my nieces). I have never met such a difficult baby. She has barely improved since I posted on here about her last year. I despair.

Bpr187 · 02/04/2020 21:52

@Twinkletoes19 thank you for your response! To be honest I just feel like he doesn’t want to interact with us at all. His eye contact is poor unless he’s laying on his back.. He looks away from me constantly and just ignores me. He wants me to carry him around. It’s not even as if he wants me to play with him. If I do that he starts winging and crying because he doesn’t like hardly any toys. Really hoping he will get better with age. Although I’ve also terrified myself as I’ve read online that babies who don’t smile is a sign of autism!! WHY DID I GOOGLE!! Xx

Unruellie · 27/04/2021 22:34

Any updates?? lol I know it’s been 9 years but I got A grumpy guy myself he’s8 months and I’m hoping it gets better

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