Hi, DS is 4.5 weeks old and EBF so far. We have been able to put him down for sleeps at night up until a couple of nights ago. When he was newborn we were able to put him down for sleeps during the day, but he seems to have become quite windy and so we have ended up holding him so that he can sleep properly, and so that I can have a break from feeding (otherwise he wakes up and I need to let him feed back to sleep). We thought this would be sustainable until he gets a bit older and gets over the wind, but now he has started not going down at night. We sleep on a matress on the floor at night, and he sleeps next to us on a slightly raised part of the matress to help with wind, but for the last 2 nights he will only settle when held. We have been trying to get him to lie down, but he wakes up every time and we rock him back to sleep, but untimately he is not going as long between feeds as he was, because he is stirring through being put down. It means that he feeds less effectively, because at night he just tends to glug what is there and go back to sleep, but because he is waking more often through us trying to put him down, he then doesnn?t have as much to glug, goes back sleep and then wakes sooner because he hasn?t taken as much iyswim. He was sleeping 2-3 hour blocks in the night and now it?s about 1-1.5 hours (I realise this could be just his feeding need, and if it is that?s fine, but we are pretty sure that he wants to sleep longer but can?t because he doesn?t like being put down. DP and I are exhausted, and have 3yo DS to look after during the day. We have tried infacol to help with the wind to no avail, and we did even try a dummy a couple of times (both these things I don?t really want to do but getting a bit desperate). DH is taking DS for sleeps at night so that I can get some sleep when not feeding, but he is getting super exhausted. I struggle to sleep in the same room as DS as even when he?s asleep I can?t relax cos I hear him moving or stirring. Any advice would be really appreciated ! Thakn you.