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Does this sound like Night Terrors in my 3 yr old sons sleep?

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bacon · 06/07/2012 22:55

He has been an absolute nightmare at night over the last few weeks and its not improving. A few hours after falling asleep he wakes up crying and shouting 'mum, mum, mum' and this happens continually all night. I've asked him if there is any pain or what is the problem but he doesnt tell me anything apart from saying his belly hurts but then he says that in odd conversation but I know theres nothing wrong. It is draining us, my husband is exhausted and cant sleep properly as the shouting and banging of the wall (next to our room), and its putting stain on us.

He is a very happy, healthy and challenging 3 yr old, has great happy days in nursery and at home and isnt over stimulated however, we find it hard to calm him down at bedtime. He seems fine in the morning. He has a great diet. We have no issues with him apart from him being naughty and testing and we try to be firm on him but he takes no notice at all.

He shares a room with DS1 but he doesnt wake up at all and has never experenced this.

This nightime ritual is exhausting us surely there must be something we can do?

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kissingtoads · 07/07/2012 00:43

Certainly sounds like it. You could try the method of waking him in the hours before they happen to change his reaching that part of the sleep cycle.

tazmo · 08/07/2012 10:51

Our dd also seems to be having this. Thought she was getting better but the last 2 nights she has been inconsolable and talking about the woman at the end of her bed going away (even though there is no one there and she appears VERY Awake). It took dh over an hour,to console her and he is,really tired as I am 37 weeks preggers so is helping me get my rest. Anyone know what to do when so inconsolavpble, nothing you seem to do helps? Our ds had it but he is a lot better now.

saffronwblue · 08/07/2012 11:00

DD had this for years. It happened when she was physically exhausted - like the first days of a beach holiday, for example.Low Highlight was the night when she told me to go away because she wanted her real mummy. She had no memory of it the next morning.

mrsbaffled · 08/07/2012 18:00

Over-heating at night can make night terrors worse, so you could try using a lighter blanket or just a sheet for a few nights??

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