Help, my 2.5 year old daughter will not pooh in the loo/potty. She has been out of nappies for 3 months, even dry at night now. But as of 6 weeks she poohs her pants whenever she needs a number 2. Sometimes she will finish off in the potty, but most of the time she says it's finished, we clean up, and then there are 2 or 3 more dirty pants afterwards. It is affecting what we do, who we can see, where we can go. Being cross does not help, though last night I did exclaim to her in exasperation that it was disgusting. She talks the talk, "poo-poo in potty" etc but does not do it. The same at nursery and they have no advice other than it's just a phase. Bless their patience. Any tips mumsnetters please?!?! I have tried stories of poo parties in the pipes, bribes, asking if it hurts, giving more water, saying "oh well never mind, maybe next time you ill get to the loo". Now I don't know where to go with it, and it's every day! I have a 4-yr old DS, who had no probs and is very happy to demonstrate to his sister what to do. Is DD just attention seeking...? Any tips, experiences much welcomed! Thanks.