dd1(5) has generally been the dream child very very well behaved in generall. dont get me wrong shea had her moments but nothing major.
at the weekend its like she has become a different child she just moaned all weekend about nothing she got in big sulks and strops and cried a lot :( really difficult to see she is usually such a happy child
any way the point of my post is today after school teacher approached me and said at play time a child was telling dd not to do something dd was clearly not going to liaten and lasged out hitting the child on hwr arm with a rubber hoop she had in her hand. teachwr said dd had time out for 3 mins and apologised. teacher was happt with this but felt she ahould let me know
so getting home i was torn as felt dd ahould be disaplined by me ao she fully underatands the severity that we dont lash out no matter what the situation but also dh and i jave always gone by the rules that id the incident has already been delt with then its over with any way i decided to send dd upstairs and to make a sorry card for the girl she hit before she could play in the garden with the others and alao told her she can no.longer invite her friend for tea this week. wouls you say this was adequate?